1) it'll slow you down if you get heavy wheels and tires.
2) leave the cat on there, get 2" mandrel bent with a muffler
3) octane booster is worthless....don't waste your money
4) weight distribution, a good place to start is relocating the battery to the trunk. Summitracing.com makes a kit to do so...also carbon fiber hood, removing some more weight in the front as well, all that helps.
5) can't use the Quaife for the SR20...as it is, without forced induction the QG doesn't need a limited slip device.
no way to go to rear disc without getting a spec v rear axle. also it's not necessary, our drums are quite good.