My last boyfriend would make me talk dirty to him during sex. I didn't want to do it but I have to admit, it really got me off. Now I kinda need it, so how do I break this to my new lover, she is very timid so I don't want to scare her.
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just ask her if she has any fetishes..if she does, then that shouldnt be too big of a problem
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My last boyfriend would make me talk dirty to him during sex. I didn't want to do it but I have to admit, it really got me off. Now I kinda need it, so how do I break this to my new lover, she is very timid so I don't want to scare her.
I would ask if she would like to try something new or different, and if she doesn't like it, then don't do it. Open communication is very helpful...
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Just be honest. Open up and the worst she can say is no. She can at least try it if its something new for her to see what she thinks about it. I don't see how she would get freaked out if she trusts you.
Yeah but the things I would say are pretty harsh, so I am a little embarrased.
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Start off talking 'lightly'. See how she responds. If she responds in a good way, up the intensity a bit. She'll learn to like it...
I don't know if I can do light, the things that come into my head are pretty hardcore, otherwise it doesn't work.
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I understand what your talking about, but I mean, right at first, just slowly ease into it. That's all. The girl I'm with right now was a virgin before me, and it was like she was afraid of everything at first. I just took things slowly, but on pace, and she started to just go with it. It may have backfired, she's more of a freak then I am these days.
...I like the idea of bringing up fetishes though, it may make the confession of your Turret-like sex fetish.
But if she's just a lay and that's it then go all out...why hold something back from yourself that gives you so much pleasure. If she can't handle it then she obviously can't handle you.
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I'm not going to say what i like to say it is too emabrrassing, I will tell you I like to say cunt while in the heat.
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I say Rape her, and as your raping her, talk dirty. I will put money on it that she will enjoy it as much as you do.
I'm playin.
But I think if she really likes you, she will try it just to see how it is. Worst comes to worst like the others said she will say no, or she will say yes and like it, or say yes and not like it. Shes not gonna leave you for it.
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