I'm not digging that first one either, but hey, it's all a matter of taste. I have yet to see a kit on a B13 that I would like to have. They're typically a little too bold for my taste and most of the side skirts suck because they don't have filler panels for the lower door to blend the profile established by the front end. I personally like this one, but then again, I'm biased.
Probably one of the nicest I've seen is Serban's (fast91ser) over at the Sr20DEforum. I've always dug this car. Lots of subtle touches. Most people don't recognize the B14 wheels painted body color with a polished lip. Plus the guy is cool as hell.