Hey i wanted to thank you guys for the help and diag. of the problem!! i found a used tranny on the internet for $650 bucks (woot only had 6k miles on it...yeah you read that right! 6,000!)
my brother friend put it in for little or nothing its runs like a car now!! i need to break this tranny in ....maybe burn some rubber now with out worry!
Thank ALL!!! woot!! im back in business!!!
